Goodbye blogger

Dear all,

I am moving ! Virtually, that is. My blog has now moved to Wordpress (another blogging service) and can be accessed via the normal URL of http://www.benturner.org - if you already had this web address bookmarked, then you shouldn't have come here at all :)

People coming here via RSS will need to update their feeds to http://turnerstyle.wordpress.com/feed/

Might be a while before I move all the formatting over, but all the content should be over there right now. There will be no more updates on this site, so get over there now !!! And bookmark the http://www.benturner.org address, then if I move again, you'll magically come along with me next time !

Ben

(Note : Just noticed it may take up to 48 hours for the benturner.org address to redirect to the new site)

(Another Note : Hmmm.... website address does not seem to be updating ! I'll keep trying...)

Totally sick weight loss

Maybe I've learnt to look on the bright side of illness, but after a long running cold, during which I ate nothing but simple foods and generally tried to "starve" it off, along with a rather nasty bought of food poisoning, I noted my weight had dropped somewhat.

So I've been trying to keep up the healthier eating, keeping clear of the pints, and refusing all but the best snacks at work (my line manager's wife is darn handy with cakes and going through a baking spree at the moment, so it's been hard work let me tell you). And now the cold is gone, and equally the weather has decided to be fabulous, I can accompany that with a little exercise too.

All in all, I'm only 2-3 lbs away from being under BMI 30 again. A good milestone back toward being fit enough for 10km runs again; who knows, might get there again for this summer.

For now, it's 2-3km alternating running and brisk walking...

I scan see clearly now the pain has gone

I realised recently I had almost moved onto Facebook updates over actual blogging. Partly this was due to work restricting access to my blogging site (so much for lunchtime blogging). I was then reminded by an article (http://ping.fm/FXjts) that blogging is actually a much more enriching experience and communication medium, and so I think I'll try and blog more and facebook less. Not sure it's time to delete facebook yet, but it's certainly a secondary form of communication for me - I'll pick up an e-mailed message or invite within 24 hours usually. On facebook, it's closer to a week - which means I miss a few invites, but if they really wanted me there, they'd have e-mailed or called :)

Anyhow, recently announced first on facebook was my recent scans at Basingstoke hospital, which I am very pleased to announce came out clear and promising. This is great news obviously, although I guess I wasn't running out to tell the world ASAP. Why ? Partly because I guess I had lots of other things I was focusing my life on, so I was just "ignoring the whole cancer deal" for now. But also I guess because it is one of many scans I am due to have for the years to come, and this by no means radically changes what I had already taken onboard - I've come through chemotherapy and surgery with a reasonable percetnage chance for being totally cured in the long term. The percentage chance just went up a little, that's all :)

But it is important to celebrate the little victories along the path, so thanks to all kind commentators from facebook, and I am now very pleased to be able to share this with the far more discerning and cultured crowd that are my loyal blog reading massive !

More blood tests in 3 months, another scan in 6 months. After which, I might be investigating my options within the Australian medical care system. More on that later.

2010 planning

Made it snowboarding in the end, 4 great days on the snow ! Exhausted afterwards though, especially due to having to get coaches instead of trains to and from the airport.

Now the new year beckons, and planning - birthday party, Australia visa, moving countries and a wedding all to sort out. Put together a long list of things to do, which means I feel comforted that I've captured all the tasks, so rather than do any of them, I've been having a wonderful relaxed weekend at my cousin's for a Burn's night supper. And playing with lego.

Coming up soon - MORE snowboarding, with a week in St Anton, and then I need to sort out my next scans to check everything is still fine inside. But first I gotta figure out this birthday party thing...

Icy plans

So the plan was to board a plane tomorrow morning (~6am), jet to Geneva, and spend 3.5 days in the snow with my trusty snowboard.

The train to Luton airport is not runnning, so I have a more expensive coach / taxi operation sorted out. I had to buy an extra coach ticket just now when I read snowboards were not allowed in the hold luggage (bet they are when I get there, but for a £10 it wasn't worth pissing about with).

Main bugger is the dozen other people I am going with are flying out of Gatwick. There flight hasn't been cancelled, but every flight before it HAS. I am supposed to meet them at the airport to share taxi rides to the resort.

Think I've written of the .5 day snowboarding. And that's me being optomistic :)

Right now, it's 5 hours until the taxi comes, time to rest my head, briefly.

Merry Xmas

Having been flooded by xmas cards this year, I am very touched. And frankly surprised so many of you have my address. I'm afraid no such offering from us, but instead an eco-friendly xmas mail to say Merry Christmas to everyone and best wishes for the new year ahead. And for those who I've not kept in regular contact with / don't read the blog / spam filter my mails on purpose, I've written a little bit about the year gone by. The rest of you can read it too - you might have forgotten most of it and there will be a quiz later.

I think 2009 was the "Empire Strikes Back" year for me; sure. it had some pretty tough parts and some low moments, but it also had some of the truly best and memorable moments too. But no AT-ATs.

The first part of my year was dominated by recovery from the bowel cancer I was diagnosed with back in Aug 2008. I had a lull in treatment at the start of the year, which I used to get a few cheeky days snowboarding in. Then Chemotherapy started again until March, when I had a month off before the surgery in April. This surgery successfully removed the bad parts of my liver, and after a month's rest, I resumed the last few cycles of chemo to ensure "gold standard" treatment. This ended at the start of July, in time for me to gather more energy for both my good friends' wedding as well as my cousin's wedding, both in Scotland, both wonderful events and both great excuses to wear man-skirts (kilts).

These really acted as my initial celebration for treatment being over. There were still a few checkups ahead which externally and internally showed that all looked well and as expected. I think I was just glad it was over, and happy to be able to get on with my life again. So I was truly blown away by a surprise drinks party that Mimi organized for me later in the year, which helped me draw that final line behind me from what had happened.

So the first step in getting on with my life, of course, was to get the ring and ask my sweetheart to marry me. An elaborate setup of hotels and treats over two days in Melbourne whilst visiting Mimi's family and friends allowed me to spoil my sweetie with food and champagne and then get down on one knee. Not actually with a ring - we had determined she'd like to pick her own (which she later did, a classic, elegant, beautiful and, all importantly, reasonably priced item) - but with a charm bracelet I had taken time to choose before flying out. I am pleased to say she kindly said yes, and made me a very happy man indeed !

I also got to attend the christening of my new nephew Luca, Mimi's brother's baby boy with exceptionally cute cheeks ! Along with my wonderful, gorgeous nieces, Liv and Izzy, who I got to spend lots of time with whilst recovering (a totally awesome silver lining from my period of illness) I am a blessed uncle indeed. Almost enough to consider returning the favor someday to my brother and future brother-in-law. But first our thoughts are concerned with wedding bells, as we try and put together a plan and set a date for the upcoming wedding. Late 2010 would be ideal, early 2011 probably the latest we'd like it.

We are decided on Australia as a venue, but will try and celebrate with friends and family on both sides of the globe. This is set to tie in with a move to Australia, continuing our lives together down under. It will be sad to move away from / great to move closer to you (delete as applicable) but certainly it doesn't mark an end of anything, but more heralds a new chapter for us. A new chapter on the forest moon of Endor. By which I mean Australia.

So I intend to spend this xmas and new year continuing to celebrate the great people I've met so far in life, and even try and visit a few out of towners I didn't get to see much whilst I wasn't so well. But first I've got this next week off to spend some quality time with my family and get some good food, booze and presents, which has got to be the true spirit of xmas for me.

Xmas love and best wishes to all,
Ben (and Mimi)